You will see a lot of program's today promoting how to have your best possible life. I have yet to see one of them address how underlying past trauma affects your ability to sustain the practices they recommend. The effects of developmental trauma is not always easy to see.
The proof is are you happy with your current results? Look at your relationship, if you are in one. Look at how excited you feel day-to-day? Do you like what you see when you look in the mirror? How about your financial well being? Are you in a career that you are passionate about? Are you motivated to take care of your body?
Rarely, have I found a person that didn't have some kind of developmental trauma. Here are examples in case you are wondering what I mean:
Low self worth (You get nauseated when you think of public speaking, get anxious before you try new things, negative self talk when you look in the mirror, or even disgust over your body or looks, depression)
Sense of not belonging anywhere (Feel lost, no or only a few friends, no one reaches out to you, one sided friendships, insatiable desire to feel like home)
Addictions (Over eating, drugs, sex-pornography, alcohol, binge watching Netflix)
Feelings of shame when things don’t go right (a sick feeling in your gut)
Fear of being seen (You avoid experiences that might expose you or draws attention to you)
Afraid to speak up (Shut down, get quiet, or even shrink when you disagree)
Regular bouts of feeling victimized (Negative whining tone when complaining to friends)
Fear of intimacy (Push people away when they get too close, sabotage relationships, pick people where you know it won’t work)
Fear of sexuality (Inhibited, frigid, avoid the conversation, avoid the situation, or the extreme opposite behavior)
Financial issues (Struggle with jobs or self employment, Poor spending habits, Debt)
Arguing and fighting with partner
Discounting your talents (Negative self talk, shun or deflect appreciation from others)
What I have found is the recommended solutions by the “guru’s” don't address an underlying issue that causes you to return to your old ways - causing you to wonder why nothing seems to work. You start with good intentions. You do everything they tell you to do. You create a "system" to make sure you follow through.
Then suddenly, some impulse or distraction redirects you. It could be another method or framework that you imagine might get you there faster. So you ping over to another program, and the story continues...
As you look back over the years, it's easy to see something has gone wrong and regret sinks in. The challenge though, after so many trial runs, is to believe anything is more than just another "program or framework" to entice you. Now you don't even trust yourself to know the difference.
I finally learned how to put a stop to the nonsense and I want to share that with you today.
Over 10 years years ago, I went back and reviewed hundreds of sessions I had with clients. After highlighting and cataloguing hundreds of remarks and role plays we practiced, I saw a common thread amongst the sessions where clients reported breakthrough success. A couple years ago I began to film lessons for each of the practices and principles I discovered. You can now access this information below.
The goal of the program is to give you the essential tools to make you aware of any developmental trauma that is still interfering with your success today (most of the time outside of your awareness). As you practice the lessons, you will begin to see the habits, patterns, and beliefs that have always been there, right under your nose. I will then show you how to identify them and what to change to get a better result.
And I won't sugar coat this for marketing reasons. Your coping mechanisms and beliefs get modified the more you practice.
Feel free to send me an email at [email protected] if you have any questions.
Trauma is about energy stuck in the nervous system NOT the event. When you release the “stuck” energy, your body begins to self regulate and feel safe again. Only then, can you achieve a fulfilled life.
- Ed Ferrigan, Creator of the TRA-10 Trauma Healing Model
Component #1: Step-By-Step Video Lessons
Part 1: Trauma Basics
The Activation-Regulation Cycle Explained
The 4 F’s of Flight, Flight, Freeze, Faint
Stimulus or Cue, Routine, Reward Model
Part 2: See Your Blind Spots
Visioning For Success
The C.A.M.B.S. Model
Identify Fear Based Strategies
Part 3: Refriend Your Body
Wants & Needs
What's in Your Control
Learning to Love "What Is"
Part 4: Loosening The Grip
Tracking The Breath
One Breath "What is True" Statements
Notice what is positive & different
Power of Meditation
Component #2: Weekly Email Training
Integrate each video with a weekly prep email describing the situation and how to apply what will be in the next video. It tees up the next lesson in a way you are eager to watch, practice the lesson, and know how to apply it. Each week you’ll get a specifically designed email to open the lesson, offer insights, and help you frame up how to think about the video as you work your way through it. It will keep you motivated and offer you timely insights. ($150 Value)
Component #3: Lesson Worksheets
Along with each video and emails you will have PDF worksheet to follow for each exercise. It will help you to have recorded notes of what is working and what you need help on. ($100 Value)
Component #4: Feedback Systems
There is a feedback button on every video-lesson page that keeps me informed and a pulse on what is the program needs further explanation. I regularly monitor this feedback and when needed will offer weekly on-line sessions to clarify concepts, exercises, or how to handle specific situations. (no charge)
Component #5: Lifetime Updates
For the time being I am offering lifetime updates to the Trauma Release Accelerator. Neuroscience, trauma research, attachment theory, other up-and-coming psychological models and my own insights continue to refine my knowledge of the principles and I want to continue to share them with you. It is one of my life goals to create a program that has the potential to change the world. The Trauma Release Accelerator or TRA-10 System is the foundation of that. ($300 Value)
Component #6: Private Discussion Group
One of the biggest challenges with integrating any new information is how our brains are wired to like patterns. Until you experience something you will not know if your pattern is promoting your learning or resisting learning. What we know for sure in brain science is our brains can change but you must give it a reason. Learning from others is another way to embody the TRA-10 concepts. I encourage you to utilize this private group and save yourself a lot of time and money. ($300 Yearly Value)
Click the button below to get started and within a few minutes you’ll have access to the Trauma Release Accelerator
Step-By-Step Video Lessons For Learning Self Regulation ($595 Value)
Advanced E-Learning via Email Lessons ($100 Value)
Worksheets to supplement the lessons ($20 Value)
Group Feedback For Upgraded Lessons ($100 Value)
Lifetime Updates ($300 Value)